☉ 既来之，则安之 【jìláizhī，zéānzhī】
　　[ since we are here,we may as well stay and make the best of it now that we have come,let us stay and take the rough with the smooth now you are here,you‘d better stay since this is so,it‘s better to accept it and enjoy it ] 既已来此，那就随安于此。
　　例： 他果然既来之，则安之，我也只得因居之安，则资之深。——《儿女英雄传》